Week 11 Discussion
First impressions are very crucial in our daily and future lives, and they can help us secure or miss essential opportunities. When we meet people for the first time, irrespective of how long the other person is able to develop their opinions about our mode of dressing, physical appearance, body language, and overall behavior (Hartwich, Witzlack, Beggiato & Krems, 2019). Such people develop a picture of ourselves in their minds, and they may judge us from there. When giving the first impression, it is good to be courteous. We need to show respect to the other person and avoid being distracted by our mobile phones by putting them in silent mode. Another important thing is to avoid talking too much. It is advisable to talk less so as to give the other party an opportunity to ask questions and give their opinions. Additionally, it is good to smile, and this helps to win the other person.
When talking of first impressions, I remember back in high school when I became my class representative, and I was to deliver a speech in front of my fellow students, parents, and other guests. It was my first time talking in front of a group of people exceeding ten, but I was confidently up for the challenge. I liaised with my class teacher to get key tips prior to the presentation. I was decently dressed during the event, and I continuously relaxed my body and mind through deep breathing. I maintained eye contact with my audience so as to win, and I was able to deliver an excellent speech though not to perfection. In the future, I would consider rehearsing a speech before the presentation so as to know how I can manipulate my voice.
Reference
Hartwich, F., Witzlack, C., Beggiato, M., & Krems, J. F. (2019). The first impression counts–A combined driving simulator and test track study on the development of trust and acceptance of highly automated driving. Transportation research part F: traffic psychology and behavior, 65, 522-535.